So this was a day before & the raya day photos. We started to cook a day before raya & we started since the morning. I helped omma, eonnie & aunties prepared both meal for the raya & also for the iftar. There werent any family members that time so that was my chance to get myself working in the kitchen. Yaa growing up is sucks sometimes hahah yup because of the chores but well we live to accept & to learn them. Embrace them. Later that night after Isyak prayer, omma continued to make ketupat palas, aunties & cousins started to arrive & they helped with stuffs. I can't remember the dishes. People brought in some dishes they made before came up & I am not that fond with Raya feast & lauk so yeah, didn't pay much attention. I like kuah kacang though, the non spicy one, it suits that way, rite? But of course I have to learn to make these. Rendang, ayam masak kicap is a must there & was specially made by Aunt Mega. I helped blended some spices! Haha Im hopeless. All I know its a tiring job to prepare dishes for like 4 to 5 families! The boys err I don't know what were you guys up to. I started to feel bad for them.
So! The first thing I did was helping bibik folding her popia.
Ima doing it too...blurred -_-''
Popia skin
In the evening~
Helping
Helping
She likes him hahaa
She sure love to pose
Cute Imaa
On Raya morning!
Eonnie
To the mosque
We were separated after being told to go upstairs
Bunkface yay
Terompah
Walking back, diff route
chatting
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ps: ugh mosquitoes love me & looking for any mori-ish journal bloggers. Let me love u!
My neighbour has cats but the cats come over to my house like we are the owners. Still we give them food too & the cats always want to come inside the house pretty badly ughh what am I writing. Emm it's been a long time since I last updated on cats, here's one of the cats. I called him Handsome! Hahah look at him he's so cute and pretty! He is the only child which looks like that unlike his siblings & his mom! He's the beauty hahah I am biased. Oppa dropped this to me , "Maybe he (Handsome) is the child of our Abang (my grey cat, no longer here :(( ) & the mom, thats why he's like this, inherited his father's handsome gene" I cannot agreed more! Indeed & I want to believe so. Handsome even has blue eyes. Short tail.
It is Katy Perry's new track! She will be launching her 3rd album, Prism! So here is the lyric MV.. huhu now its like that eh. Release the lyric mv first & all. Ive mentioned about this before. I can't wait for her to release the whole album. I love Katy Perry & Ive been listening the One of the boys' album currently. It's like I know Katy is about to release new songs~
So only chosen photos are uploaded here. Mostly boys & men~ *lazy*
Cousins & oppa
Maaf zahir & batin
Gajok
still there were missing people
oldest cousin & pretty daughters
This year, some of families are not there, so there werent much people. A bit empty. Less people more work in the kitchen. I was there & also other girls. Etam & Et were left home & I was afraid a bit to leave injured Etam there but she was doing fine Alhamdulillah. I saw & held my latest cousin, Aikiel a baby boy hahah. I was no good in holding a baby. He's heavy, man! I wore light chocolate kurung. The same with yo-dongsaeng & shawl. Yeay I like the way it turned out~
I hope any masam muke, fights & mute happening around us between family, friends, collegues, neighbours & all...umm get over it please..Ur not getting any younger & the problem isnt going anywhere if the ego is still there. Pray hard. Everything will be fine. Tgkla pg2 tu Tanyalah Ustaz ehh...bnyk ilmu ade kt stu...So if there is a fight or debate going on, it is always be on a good base.
ps: Love u guys because of Allah & we are family, family means nobody get left behind. Rite?
So I thought I'd share this... I was watching Tanyalah Ustaz when someone asked a question about too much farting & the ustaz even mentioned about women's 'vaginal fart' ya I made the term but I think it exists. So this is very important.
Penulis: Dr Rosediani Muhammad.
(Pakar Perubatan Keluarga, Kampus Kesihatan Universiti Sains Malaysia, Kubang Kerian, Kelantan)
Keluar angin melalui faraj (kentut vagina)
Pengenalan
Perbahasan mengenai keluarnya angin melalui faraj atau vagina atau qubul ada disentuh oleh ulama. Mengikut kaedah saintifik, vagina adalah tiub yang berotot dan berdinding membran sepanjang 7 hingga 9 cm yang menghubungkan pangkal rahim ke bukaan faraj. Bukaan faraj ini dikawal oleh beberapa otot kemut sama seperti otot yang mengelilingi bukaan dubur dan salur kencing. Dalam keadaan biasa, tiub ini berada dalam keadaan tertutup, dindingnya kempis menyentuh antara satu sama lain dan tidak mengeluarkan sebarang angin. Ini adalah kerana bakteria yang berada di sel-sel lapisan dalam vagina hanya bertindak balas mengeluarkan asid laktik untuk menjadikan faraj berasid, lembab dan membantu mengelakkan jangkitan kuman pada permukaannya.
Keadaan ini berbeza dengan situasi yang berlaku pada usus besar yang mana bakteria dalam usus besar bertindakbalas mengeluarkan gas yang dikenali sebagai kentut. Maka dalam keadaan normal, vagina sepatutnya tidak mengeluarkan sebarang angin melainkan sekiranya seseorang wanita itu mengalami masalah fistula (lubang penyambung) antara rektum (usus besar) dengan vagina akibat pembedahan antara usus dan faraj. Keadaan ini menyebabkan angin dari usus besar masuk ke dalam faraj.
Kebanyakan wanita sebenarnya mengalami masalah keluar masuk angin di antara kelopak besar labia (labia majora), angin ini berkumpul di celah ruang yang terbentuk antara kelopak dan faraj. Fenomena ini sering disalah anggap sebagai angin yang keluar dari bukaan faraj. Lebih memburukkan keadaan apabila wanita berkenaan mengangkat hadas iaitu membasuh bahagian kemaluan mereka. Air yang terperangkap di celah kelopak-kelopak besar labia, menyebabkan pergerakan angin keluar masuk melalui kelopak-kelopak labia ini lebih ketara dirasai semasa pergerakan solat, yang akhirnya turut mengeluarkan bunyi dan rasa keluar angin seperti kentut. Lebih menyulitkan lagi bukaan faraj tidak mempunyai deria rasa yang sensitif seperti bukaan dubur hingga membolehkan kita dapat merasai keluarnya angin dari bukaan faraj secara yakin.
Namun begitu, keluar masuk angin di vagina berkemungkinan berlaku kepada wanita yang mengalami kelemahan pada otot-otot kemut seperti wanita yang telah melahirkan ramai anak, mengalami masalah jatuh peranakan dan juga tidak dapat mengawal kencing (kencing dedas) Bagi memastikan bahawa angin yang keluar masuk itu bukan dari vagina, wanita disarankan berdehem selepas membuang air sebagaimana dianjurkan Rasulullah bagi orang yang mengalami masalah kencing dedas, mengelap kering bahagian sulit selepas berhadas kecil, atau melakukan ujian dengan meletakkan tisu di antara kelopak ini (bukan menyumbat faraj). Sekiranya angin sudah tidak kedengaran lagi, maka sahlah ia berasal dari masalah ini, jika dia terus menerus berlaku, maka wanita perlu mengakui besar kemungkinan angin itu berasal dari faraj. Wanita berkenaan disarankan untuk mempraktikkan senanam kemut untuk menguatkan semula otot-otot kemut bagi menutup kemas bukaan faraj.
Hukum dan implikasinya
Hukum wanita yang mengeluarkan angin / kentut melalui faraj (qubul) dan juga dubur adalah batal wuduknya berdasarkan dalil berikut,
‘Abbad bin Tamim melaporkan daripada Nabi s.a.w yang berkata, “Jangan seseorang berpaling iaitu meninggalkan solat sehingga ia mendengar bunyi kentutnya atau tercium baunya”.
Hadis direkodkan oleh Muslim dan Bukhari.
Berdasarkan hadis di atas, secara jelas Rasulullah memberitahu bahawa keluar angin boleh membatalkan solat. Oleh sebab itu, wanita yang mengalami masalah angin pada faraj disarankan mengambil langkah-langkah berikut;
1. Berdehem selepas membuang air kecil.
2. Membasuh kemaluan dengan sempurna.
3. Mengelap faraj sehingga kering dan menutupi ruang kemaluan dengan tisu, kain atau menutupi ruang dengan rapat menggunakan tuala pelekat yang nipis dan bersih.
4. Kemudian memakai seluar dalam yang kemas agar udara tidak boleh keluar masuk sebelum berwuduk dan menunaikan solat.
Hahah look at him he's so cute and pretty! He is the only child which looks like that unlike his siblings & his mom! He's the beauty hahah I am biased. Oppa dropped this to me , "Maybe he (Handsome) is the child of our Abang (my grey cat, no longer here :(( ) & the mom, thats why he's like this, inherited his father's handsome gene" I cannot agreed more! Indeed & I want to believe so. Handsome even has blue eyes. Short tail.
